Monthly Archives: September 2016

育子三法

子女暴泣時、制之有三法

一為罵
二為說理
三為無視

有按國或人文之趨。例華人偏一、美國人偏、日本人偏三。

遷居日當時、見第三法而驚。何故不應也?今思其智。一即罵者自降至童之平也、又使童認可由長討應。下矣!二即試由言而改之。童卻或未熟以明其論次、大人或倦於譯。

三則尊於少及長。兒童學其鬧之無效。大人寬之、而不勞於說、等子女于自程發覺。

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Success

There is a single definition of success. Look at yourself in the mirror, in the evening, and wonder if you disappoint the person you were at 18, right before people get corrupted by life. Let him or her be the only judge. Not your education, not your wealth, not your standing in the community, not the decorations on your lapel. If you do not feel ashamed, then you are successful.

– Nassim Nicholas Taleb